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Helping audiences uncover why people get pulled into toxic relationships—even when they know the signs—and giving them the tools to break the cycle for good.
Whether you're booking a speaker, planning a podcast episode, or looking for a fresh voice on toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, or relational trauma—I’d love to connect.
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Bree Bonchay | LCSW
Trauma-Informed Psychotherapist • Relationship Coach • Author • Speaker • Founder of World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day
With over 20 years of experience, Bree helps insightful, successful people uncover the unconscious patterns that keep them stuck in toxic relationships, and shows them how to break the cycle for good.
She blends:
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The science of trauma and neurscience
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The wisdom of lived experience
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A fiercely compassionate approach
Whether working with clients, speaking on stage, or appearing on a podcast, Bree brings clarity, depth, and hope to every conversation.

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Why you still fall for the wrong person—even when you know better
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It’s Not You, It’s the Advice: Why Traditional Relationship Advice Falls Flat
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What nobody tells you about red flags (and why they don’t actually protect you)
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How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable and narcissistic partners
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You had a good childhood… so why do you keep ending up with toxic partners?
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Why toxic relationships feel magnetic (and how to break that pull)
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The moment that changes everything: how one small shift rewires the whole pattern
Signature Topics
Expertise
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Narcissistic abuse recovery
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Complex trauma and attachment
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Emotional regulation and nervous system healing
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Rewiring relational patterns
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Gaslighting, trauma bonding, and cognitive dissonance
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Healing after toxic relationships
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Empowerment, boundaries, and self-trust
Success Stories
Read what my clients say about working with me.
Clients who gained clarity, hope, and emotional relief—even after years of feeling stuck.
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